Sunday, March 3, 2013

You're two!


My sweet boy,

 In some ways it's hard to believe you're two because time has gone so quick since you've been born, but on the other hand, I look at you throughout the day and see a little boy right before my own eyes. Parenting you has by far been the biggest blessing and challenge I have ever faced in my life. You teach me about patience, grace, letting go of control, and trusting in God in a daily basis. You are my sweet boy and I can't thank God enough for entrusting us to raise such a unique little man.

One of the best things about this past year has been watching your natural gifts, talents, and interests emerge. If you would have asked me last year what type of boy you would be, I imagine i would have responded that you'd be some sort of mountain man/risk taker type of boy. You still absolutely love the outdoors, but I've seen a whole new creative side of you come out this past year. Some of your absolute favorite things in the world are coloring, reading books, and listening/playing music.



We have spent hours at your craft table in your "awesome" room coloring away. You ask to draw on a daily basis, and have actually gotten really good at coloring inside of the lines. You almost always ask me to draw a crossing and then proceed to narrate that "the crossing goes down, red lights flash, ding ding ding, trains comin trains comin, watch out!" I will pick up brochures from different Seattle sites, like the space needle, and we'll cut out different pictures and glue them onto a paper to color. You love to open up the space needle brochure and say "SO BIG" in a really deep voice. You also love to talk about the elevators that go up.

                     

You are absolutely passionate about books- both in pulling them off the shelf, but also thumbing through pages and asking me to read different ones to you. You can recognize the titles of probably over 50 books and can recite parts of many of them, especially if they rhyme. You are very particular about which books you read. Our normal routine is pulling a book out of your basket, saying the title, and you'll either quickly say "what baby needs, no" or "what baby needs" and then settle back into my lap. It's not uncommon for you to come and find me when i'm getting ready or folding the laundry, and look up at me with a sheepish grin, holding a book and say "read it?" One of your favorite books right now is curious George  There's a part that talks about Curious George getting covered in syrup like a panacke, and you think it's about the funniest thing ever. You start shaking your body and will say over and over "covered in syrup like a pancake!!" You will randomly recite books out of the blue. One day you yelled "OH NO! Bumblebees! Buzzing close! Get out the bumblebees shout!" Yesterday you asked for a snack, and dad said "the only snack we have right now is almonds." You replied "almonds. Eggs, milk, paper napkins, bread." We were so confused until we realized you were quoting the grocery list from the book "Don't Forget the Oatmeal." You love to go to the library, and can recognize when we're getting close. You love to look at the fish, push the buttons on the handicap door, and pull book after book off the shelf while I scramble to put them back in the right spot.



Music is also one of your favorite things. You call it "mix." You love listening to the band at church and will always start telling the childcare workers at church "all done, mix" when it's getting close for me to come and get you. You want to have a concert (said in the same low, deep voice) many times a day, and again you're very particular about which songs we sing/play. You frequently say "different song" shortly into singing. We can't pull out of the driveway without you requesting me to turn on the radio. When I tell you we're going to James & Saisha's house, you immediately start talking about the drums and the guitars they have at their house. You perform best with your train hat on. I love this part of your personality, because in social settings, no one would ever guess how animated and free spirited you become when playing music. You don't sing a lot, but definitely love baa baa black sheep, and wheels on the bus. You always think it's funny when I sing down by the bay and talk about a moose kissing a goose. You will repeat that line over and over again.



It's amazing how much you start to mimic things that I tell you throughout the day. Sometimes i'll be thinking something and without saying anything, you'll say it out loud. The other day you were eating a snack on the couch and you started saying "that's ok, that's ok, don't worry." I looked over and you had spilt your snack and were putting it back in your cup. This made me proud because you normally get very upset when things tip over. You will also repeat a lot of play scenarios that I act out days later, especially with your train set. You will always ask your ducks if they want to go for a ride and then you'll load them onto different train cars, and then will eventually say "everybody off!" The ducks and boy also like to stand on the tracks and you'll say "lookin for trains? Be careful!"



You're working on your letters, numbers and colors and will typically skip about 60% of the alphabet. You're also convinced that counting to 10  goes "1, 2, 6"

If you could pick your top three favorite places it would be Edmonds, anywhere with big diggers and cranes, and downtown- as long as it involves elevator rides, tunnels/parking garages, and at least driving by the space needle. You ask to ride the monorail every single time by saying "get on it?" Edmonds is by far your favorite place in the world. When I tell you we're going to Edmonds, you say in an excited voice, "go to Edmonds, look at trains!!" There's so much you love- throwing rocks in the water, watching the ferry come and go (which you always say "get on it? Another day", going inside the station, watching the crossing go up and down, and looking at the birds, whale, and scuba divers. The noise of the trains scares you a little, so you always snuggle up to me and say "loud, cover your ears."

One thing I don't want to forget is about how you request to snuggle on a daily basis. You make a noise like you're cold and will say "snuggle blankie." We get all wrapped up in a cozy blanket, and usually about 3 seconds later you say, "all done!" You also love to build forts with our couch "pushions", and hide from dad when he gets home from work. You always give our hiding spot away because dad will say "Colter, where are you?" and you will respond back "Colter?" You still love to drive our cars. You love to run from the door and knock down blocks, or race to the couch.

You still love the outdoors, though it's hard to know how much because of the colder weather. You like to sit on your tricycle, and you always make sure your duck helmet is on. You like to walk to the mailboxes and talk about the mailman bringing packages. "No packages today." I wish I would remember all your little sayings forever. You like to walk over the storm drains, throw rocks, pull pinecones off the tree and "feed" the bushes, and dance around in the bark pit.



It will be interesting to see how your personality shapes and develops over the years. Right now, you prefer to be by yourself, or in small groups of kids- especially your cousins. You absolutely adore your cousins and light up whenever you know we're going to their house, or they're coming over. I am so thankful that we are blessed to have them in our life- they are such special kids for you to learn from. You tend to get anxious and overwhelmed in large groups, parties, or at large play activities where there is a lot of busy activity. You aren't the "life of the party," but I also know God changes and molds people over the years. You are very inquisitive and curious, and you love to learn. You hang on to everything I tell you and seem to remember most of it.



We love you sweet boy. Happy Two Years.





week 2

I got sick early on in the week, so we did a lot more laying around which was still really enjoyable! Ben took Colter to the trampoline park and they had a blast bouncing around, jumping into the foam pit, and throwing balls. I can't believe how much their bond has grown over these past two weeks. Colter used to cry any time anyone took him away from me, and now he willingly goes anywhere with Ben, and asks where dada is going anytime he gets up to go upstairs or run an errand, etc. Boy is he in for a surprise this next week when he goes back to work :( We're going to miss having dad around.

We took Colter to the mall to buy his first pair of shoes. He looks pretty stylin in his new boots.


Here's a random mix up of pics from this past week.












Monday, February 25, 2013

week one

This past week has been wonderful. I have to be careful not to count the number of days I have left with Ben and just enjoy the gift of time I've been given. I can't write enough about how much Ben is such a special man. He has been a HUGE help, which makes me wonder even more how i'm going to do this by myself. He's constantly being attentive to Colter, helping with cleaning, holding the baby, making sure I get a nap every day, and just being an encourager.

 Because the pace of a toddler does not slow down with a new little one, we've pretty much just kept going. We've been doing shifts at night to allow each person to get at least 5-6 hours of sleep a night. (doesn't sound like much but man is it better than our first few days with Colter!) Madison is still in her super sleepy stage, so we've been taking advantage of that and having two sets of hands and have gone out on a few fun outings.




The calm before the storm.. first bath

Colter was really curious about her "bee bo" (belly button) and still talks about it falling off every time we change her. 


Not too mad yet

I want to go back inside mama!!

Ben took Colter to Pump it Up and they had a great time bouncing around together.


A natural papa of two. 


I had some ladies over to meet Madison, including her bound to be BFF Emma who is 2 weeks older. 



Little lady girl looks like this a lot. 


It's been so fun to watch their bond grow. 




She is awake some times! 




We ventured out to Snoqualmie Falls & the railroad museum yesterday.

When did this guy grow up?? I ask myself that every day. 






sweet slumber


Thursday, February 21, 2013

Madison's 0 birthday party

The night we got home from the hospital, the Heavilands and Wornicks came over for Madison's 0 birthday party. I love when I look across our living room and see it covered in toys, people, and little ones. It's fun to think about how our living room has changed over the years- when we first bought the house it was just James & Saisha, now there are 5!

 


 






hospital & Colter's introduction

We had a fantastic rest of our hospital stay.. we got to send Madison to the nursery so we got around 6 hours of sleep and felt great heading home. We are so thankful for such great medical care.













Because Colter didn't come visit at the hospital, we were anxious to see him and went right to Jessie's. Our reunion was as sweet as ever as he came waddling/running down the hall after us. He was slightly interested in looking at Madison in the car seat, but that interest was quickly lost when he opened Madison's gift to him- a railroad crossing for his train set, and some road signs. He was in heaven and asked to carry them around the entire rest of the day.







We have felt so blessed with how he has responded to her so far. We know they'll be frustrations and resentments in the future, but for right now, he seems so tender towards her. He doesn't pay a lot of attention to her, but every now and then he'll say something like "Madison squeaked!" or he'll go look at her in the swing and tell us when the music stops. Her crying has been the hardest thing for him to understand and we've seen him get a little frustrated by it. We are looking forward to see their relationship grow and change over the years!